Compliment him on his achievements when you hear about them. For example, if he scored the winning goal at his soccer game, you might say, “Hey! Congratulations on that goal!” Don’t forget to compliment the things he says and does as well! For example, if he cracks a joke while you’re standing nearby, you might laugh and say, “Wow, I never realized how funny you are!”

Add a personal touch with “liner notes” where you tell him a little about each song or what it means to you.

For example, you might let him see you playing with an animal or small child, or talk about how you volunteer at the shelter or tutor elementary school kids. If you’re a typical Libra woman, this shouldn’t be too difficult for you, since you value equality and balance and tend to stick up for the underdog. [7] X Research source

For example, if he writes or draws in journals, you might buy a journal for him, then decorate the cover.

For example, you might engineer a scavenger hunt with little notes hidden in various places that lead him to you, sitting on a park bench. If he’s an athlete, you might show up to one of his games and hold up a sign for him. Look to rom-coms for inspiration as well! Maybe show up outside his window blasting a love song, à la Say Anything, or serenade him with a song (The Wedding Singer, Top Gun, 10 Things I Hate About You). The Pisces man also has a tendency to be shy at first, so a grand gesture can help him open up. At the same time, he’s attracted to confidence, making this a win-win for you![10] X Research source

Look for moments of inspiration in pieces you see. The two of you might decide you want to take an art class together to learn a particular style or find out more about the methods used to create the works you like the most.

For example, you might take him on your favorite hike which ends at a beautiful overlook. Or follow a trail to a “secret” waterfall that most people don’t know about. The more private and secluded your spot, the better—a typical Pisces man loves places where he feels like he can commune with nature or be one with his surroundings.

There are many art studios that have couple’s classes where you can try painting, sculpting, or even glass blowing together, then take home your piece as a souvenir of the experience. If you’re not particularly artistic yourself and he is, level out the playing field a bit by choosing something neither of you has done before. While he might still have an edge, you’ll both get to experience something new and you won’t have to worry about him outshining you too much. Remember, even if your creation doesn’t turn out like either of you envisioned it, it’s still special because it’s yours—and on top of that, you have a fun story to share about it.

For example, you might go out shopping with some friends while he sits at home alone and reads a good book. Afterward, you can get together and show him what you bought and listen while he tells you about the ideas he got from his reading.

Try not to pry into things either—let him tell you what he wants to tell you. If you ask too many questions, he’ll start to think you don’t trust him. For example, if he doesn’t text you all day and you ask him about it, accept his answer at face value. He’s likely to get upset if you keep poking at him or try to argue that he still could’ve texted you. When he sees that you’re willing to respect his privacy, he’ll open up more.

Your Pisces guy might have a hard time making and sticking to a schedule or planning ahead for things. Just keep in mind he can be easily overwhelmed by mundane details. If you’re willing to pick up the slack for him a little, you’ll both come out on top.

If you’re the typical Libra lady, you love indulging yourself. [19] X Research source If you have a regular spa appointment, bring your Pisces guy along—he’ll love feeling like you’re letting him in on your life.

For example, you might book a weekend at a quiet beach resort in the off-season, so it can just be the two of you. As a water sign, your Pisces guy is going to thrill to be at the shore, but being alone with you makes the whole thing even greater. Even better, both signs are known to be adventurers, so trying new things and making memories together will make you both happy. [21] X Research source