If a nice thought pops into your head, let him know. An off-the-cuff compliment will be especially touching: “Wow, I just realized that you have super nice eyes. ” If you two are out to lunch, offer to share your food with him. It may sound simple, but this will go over big with a Pisces man. Throw him supportive comments when you’re in a group. If he suggests a restaurant, chime in: “Oh yeah, I’ve been there! It’s really good. Good call. ”
First, mention a feeling you’ve been having: “I’ve been sort of unfulfilled lately. I love my friends, my job, my apartment…But I feel like something is missing. ” Then, engage your Pisces crush in the convo: “Do you ever feel that way? What makes you feel fulfilled?”
Validate his feelings: “Yes, that makes so much sense. Finding out that a close friend lied to you is definitely worth feeling upset over. ” Tell him you would feel the same way: “If that happened to me, I’d be upset. If anything, you’re taking it better than I would be. ” When he’s feeling hurt, explain how that affects you: “It makes me sad to hear that you’re feeling this way. I really care about you. ”
Ask clarifying questions to show you’re engaged: “Wait, can you repeat that again? I’m confused about what you mean. ” If he seems self-conscious, encourage him to keep sharing: “I’m actually really curious about what you’re saying. I love listening to you. Keep going!”
“I had the craziest dream last night. Wanna help me analyze it?” “What did you dream about last night? I want the long version. ” Show him you’re taking the conversation seriously with a thoughtful question: “Wow. What do you think it meant when you were free-falling in your dream?”
Take your Pisces crush on a date to the museum, a poetry reading, or a concert. Afterward, ask him tons of stimulating questions about the work. Make sure you ask him about his creative projects: “So, how’s that cartoon strip you’ve been working on? I’d love to see it. ” When you can, mix quality time and artistic expression. Write a zine together, jam out, or style each other’s outfits for the day.
When you know he’s had a stressful day, whip up his favorite dinner or dessert. If he’s struggling with something, offer to help. Be his practice interview partner, exam study buddy—whatever he needs. Offer helpful solutions to his problems. Maybe he’s constantly losing things. Bring him a little dish to hold his keys by his front door.
If someone says something rude to Pisces, confront them: “Excuse me? That wasn’t cool at all. I know you think Nico will let that stuff slide, but I won’t. ” If you hear someone talk badly about your Pisces crush, say you won’t have it: “I’m not into this conversation. Move on from the gossip, or I’m leaving. "
Use creativity to express your feelings. Take his photograph, serenade him with a song, or paint his portrait to show how much you care. Take him on beautiful dates. Sunny picnics, sailboat rides with champagne, and slow-dancing under the moonlight will be a big hit with Pisces. Surprise him with an affectionate gesture. For his birthday, throw him a surprise party filled with his favorite foods and friends.
Instead of spending Saturday on the couch, take him for a day trip to a small town. Explore the city and make a rule: no talking about work. Take him to a magical, meditative spot in nature. Bring journals and spend ten minutes writing about what you see. Then, share with each other. Help him finish up a task he’s working on, like organizing his closet. Then, spend his extra time doing a refreshing, fun activity, like a movie trip.
Call up a loved one who’s great at listening. Explain that you just need to air your stresses. Then, return to your Pisces feeling patient and refreshed. If you’re still feeling edgy, do something active or creative. Go for a quick swim or run. Or, pick up an instrument to play.
When Pisces has something serious come up, drop everything to be with him. You’ve got an amazing ear for empathy, Scorpio, so offer that to him. Pisces will need your complete honesty. This is also a sensitive sign, so make sure that you’re gentle about it. “Hey. I know you wanted my opinion on your sweater. You make literally everything you wear look amazing, but I feel like maybe the blue one would match a little better?”
