You could ask the parents something like, “So you have 2 little boys that are 4 and 10. Do they have the same bedtime or is it okay for the older boy to stay up a little later?” Or “do they share similar interests? What do they like to do most of the time?” During your first conversation with parents, don’t fret about how to ask questions to get the information you need. Parents will most likely be expecting you to ask these questions and may even offer the information without prompting. If you feel awkward asking in the moment, simply review the information the parents gave you and then ask your questions afterward. Take note during the conversation and write down important information, such as if the children have allergies or medical issues, where medications and a first-aid kit are kept, and any relevant phone numbers.

If you can’t meet with them a few days beforehand, see if it’s possible for you to come over an hour or so before you are set to babysit. This way the kids can spend some time with you with the buffer of their parents to make them feel safer.

Be sure to ask questions if you still feel unsure when discussing these things with a parent. You can also make a list to go back over later in case you forget anything. Remember, if you feel a parent is asking for more than you’re comfortable with, you can always turn down the job.

Asking about discipline can feel awkward, almost like you’re assuming the children will do something wrong, but don’t worry! A simple, “What is your approach to discipline?” or “Just in case, is there any particular way you’d like me to handle behavioral issues?” avoids assumptions and gives the parents a chance to explain their approach. [6] X Research source

Before you start babysitting it’s also good to know the first aid basics like how to do CPR or the heimlich maneuver just make sure you are familiar with the procedures appropriate for the age group you’re watching. [7] X Expert Source Denise SternParenting Specialist Expert Interview. 19 February 2021. It’s best to take a babysitting course from the American Red Cross or another reputable organization so you are prepared for various scenarios. [8] X Expert Source Denise SternParenting Specialist Expert Interview. 19 February 2021.

Be sure you pay very close attention to the kids when you are outside! It can be easy for them to wander off, especially in a park with lots of other children. Try to make sure you keep them in sight at all times and do a regular headcount.

Try putting down some tape for a “balance beam,” or to mark off spots where they have to jump from one area to another. You can also have them crawl under tables or through boxes, throw crumpled paper into laundry baskets, or even try walking backward. Get creative! [12] X Research source For even more space, try doing this outside.

Write things like “find one gray and white sock,” or “bring me two red pens. ” For riddles, try something like “I’m tall when I’m young and short when I’m old,” for a candle/pencil. Make sure to include some prizes at the end for motivation. These can be anything from stickers to candy.

If you know the kids’ interests, you can bring coloring books of things they like. For example, a coloring book on Disney’s Frozen or one of cars. You can also search online for coloring material. The Disney website, for example, has a number of crafts and coloring projects based on their movies. Most of these are free for printing, however, some websites will require you to pay or join to get the material.

If you have enough people, you can even turn the dance party into a game of musical chairs.

Easy board games like Hungry, Hungry Hippos, Sorry, Uno, or Connect Four are great for all ages. Games like Clue, Pictionary, Monopoly, or Battleship work well for older children.

If there aren’t any of these materials in the home, try looking somewhere like eBay or a secondhand store to get them cheaper. If you can’t purchase these materials yourself and are regularly watching a child or children who you think would enjoy them, try discussing buying these with the parents. They may be willing to pay for them.

If a child insists that one of the other children got more or something better, have that child divide the items and then let the other child have first pick. This will usually appease both children and make sure it’s still fair all around.

Try placing the children at opposite ends of the room or in different rooms where you can monitor both. You can either give them a quiet activity like drawing to do alone or simply have them sit quietly for 5-10 minutes. You can even have them write an apology for what they did wrong. You should always make sure to explain to a child calmly what they did wrong and why they are being punished.

Always calmly answer any questions that arise to the best of your ability - younger kids ask a lot. Realize that the children are always watching you. Don’t set a good example only when you’re dealing with a tantrum. [19] X Expert Source Denise SternParenting Specialist Expert Interview. 19 February 2021. You also shouldn’t rush through activities if the younger kids are taking a while. If the older children become frustrated, either have them move onto something else or ask them to help you with the younger kids instead.

You should always maintain sight and sound supervision of every child in your care.

Try to ask them for help rather than simply telling them to help. Simply say, “Hey, could you help Jade with her drawing?” or “Could you please help me run the kids through this activity?”