Make sure you wear matching clothes and don’t try mixing crazy colors. If you think the colors match, go ahead! Make all your outfits cute and comfy. Your day will be better if your clothes are comfortable. It’s always important to figure out which styles work for your age. If you cannot afford to buy a bunch of new clothes before school starts, getting a couple of new T-shirts or accessories can bring life back into older clothes. Plus it can give them a whole new look. Whenever you go to a store, you’re probably going to find only the pieces that are in style at the moment, since they rotate the clothing seasonally. If you want to find style inspiration, find influencers, blogs and TV shows with characters you’d like to dress more. If you wear a uniform to school, you can even play with it a bit. Try adding cute necklaces or earrings to your look! Neck scarfs are also fun additions to any style!
Take showers or bathe at home regularly. Shower with gel soap or just any ordinary bar soap (showers at school are good too!) Try brushing your teeth twice a day. Nobody likes yellow teeth or bad breath. Use quality deodorant, if necessary. Always carry a tissue in your pocket, or somewhere nearby. You definitely do not want to be in a situation where you have a runny nose and don’t have anything to stop it except your fingers.
Never depend on other popular girls. Don’t hang out in cliques. Usually cliques make others feel bad, and then nobody will like you.
Do not tattle. Tattling just shows you are a little baby who tells on people! Cool girls do not tattle. If there really is a situation where you need to tell an adult that something is wrong, do so. There is a difference between tattling and doing the right thing by reporting something. Don’t try to downgrade other people, or you will appear mean.
Try finding a great game you can play, and be the center of attention! Not a desperate center, but a cool relaxed center.
Have a variety of cool music, including whoever is most popular at your school (also have more than one singer). Have a lot of songs! Add everyone you know and have cool apps that people use (Instagram, Snapchat, etc. ). Also have an app where you can send people stuff (like online cards or something). In addition have a cute, sophisticated up-to-date picture of yourself. Do not reveal too much or try to look older than you are in these photos, as there are creeps online who search for that. You can be cool without attention-seeking through makeup or revealing clothes. Also, only add friends. Don’t make your password obvious like your name, last name, or best friend’s name. If someone sends you a mean email, IM, or text, just brush it off. Even if it bothers you, tell them that you don’t care and block them from contacting you online.
Try not be friends with the mean girls. Don’t be mean back to them either. In the end, they’ll be the ones in trouble.
If your feeling down, don’t let it break your day. Brush it off and keep moving.
