For example, if you feel a bright pink mohawk is inappropriate for a job interview at an office, wear your hair down but keep pink streaks in. You will be miserable anywhere that you cannot be yourself so allow your personality to come through as much as is appropriate.
Some store market themselves as catering specifically to an alternative style. You probably already know which stores are closest to you. If that is the case, it means that a lot of alternative people are also using this resource rather than finding it on their own. Step away from the crowd and find your own resources.
Use social media to find groups that hold clothing exchanges or cater specifically to people with an alternative style.
For example, you may have the sticker of your favourite punk band on the bag that you use in the office.
For example, if red lips are big in the punk scene that you are listening to, use a more subtle shade of red lipstick when in the workplace.
You may also use nail polish or have colourful accents in your clothes or accessories if your workplace is too uptight to allow you to have colourful hair.
Make sure to consult your HR department to familiarize yourself with what is appropriate at your office as it may be different from office to office.
Take pride in the fact that not everyone can pull off your style.
Keep your prints and patterns inconspicuous until your coworkers know you and you have formed mutual respect.
It may become difficult to work if you feel it has become a hostile environment simply because people are judging you on your style. If your idea of normal is deemed as weird, make sure to politely and calmly talk to your co workers individually so you can know each other on a more personal level and they will no longer question your motives. Make sure your work is appreciated. It’s okay to be a fashion outsider but make sure you’re receiving validation for your work. Don’t give your employer any reason to discipline you so make sure you’re receiving positive feedback in your work and that your outfit is within the guidelines of your HR department.
For example, wear skull earrings or a skull ring.
If your style is more important than your job, find a job that let’s you be more comfortable while you work.
Tattoos and piercings especially need a lot of thought as they are permanent and you may grow out of them. Depending on your age, your body still may be changing physically and your tattoo or piercing may look a lot different in the next few years.
If you are trying different activities like skateboarding or parkour, remember to be safe. Always wear a helmet and safety equipment to prevent injury.
Make sure that your self-expression is within the rules of your school. You don’t want to get detention for an obscene shirt.
Get out and see live bands at clubs or anywhere that supports all-ages shows. If you see a group you like, try to talk to them after the gig. Most up-and-coming groups like to talk to their fan base. Find out what music they listen to or what inspires them.
