Boldness is the opposite of hesitation. Whenever you’re feeling hesitant in interactions with others, or in making a decision for yourself, learn to swallow your pride and make the first move.
Doing something new and unexpected might make you vulnerable or afraid. Don’t give in to those feelings. Instead, accept the newness of the skill and don’t be afraid to be yourself. [3] X Research source
Your bold inspiration doesn’t have to be real. You could even think of a character from a movie or book who’s daring and brave. Then, imagine their boldness in your life.
Realize that if you do commit to doing something, you should follow through. Your sense of self-respect will grow, as will other people’s respect for you. [7] X Research source
If you agreed to do something you really don’t wish to do, you should probably just follow through with it because you gave your word. Next time, remember to say no and assert yourself.
Don’t confuse being bold with being aggressive. Aggressiveness often involves imposing your viewpoints or actions on others. Boldness has nothing to do with the people around you. It’s about overcoming your fears and taking action.
Plan out counter-offers before you start negotiating. If you think your boss will reject your request for time off because there’s no one to fill your place, say you’ll double-up a shift when you get back, or that you’ll complete tasks remotely when you have free time.
Plan out counter-offers before you start negotiating. If you think your boss will reject your request for time off because there’s no one to fill your place, say you’ll double-up a shift when you get back, or that you’ll complete tasks remotely when you have free time.
Even if there are an unlimited number of possibilities for a given problem, limit them to the solutions that work for you. This will cut down on the amount of hassle that goes into the solution and ensure that the outcome is what you want.
Inaction or hesitation is often a kind of risk, because you’re risking missing an opportunity. This is a risk to avoid, however. Your goal is to create your best chance of success, not whittle away at your window of opportunity. When you’ve made the choice to act, do it without fear.
Don’t be afraid to take the bold step of getting help. If someone is unhelpful, find another person. This persistence to find the answers shows boldness on your part.
Don’t worry about rejection. This requires some emotional detachment from the outcome. Don’t let a rejection destroy your self-confidence and ability to be bold.
