Compliment their personality. Say, “I love talking to you. You always crack me up. " Compliment their looks. Say, “I can’t stop thinking about your eyes. Miss you. " Compliment their talents. Say, “You kiss me so well, it’s driving me crazy that I can’t do it right now. "
Plan a dream vacation together on the phone and let yourselves dream a little. Where would you go if you could go anywhere? The beach? A cruise? The mountains? Plan it all out. Plan some everyday dates as well. Talk about how you want to hit up the restaurant around the corner and snuggle in on the couch. Just talk about your lives together. One good way of ramping up the sexual tension is to talk about what you’ll do later tonight. Tell your lover exactly what you plan on doing. In detail.
Talk about the first time you met, or the first thing that you noticed about your partner. It’s always good to remember the early stages of your relationship together. Another great way to build the sexual tension? Reminisce about the things you did a few nights ago. Tell your partner what mind-blowing moves they have, to be sure they get repeated.
If you’re not sexually active yet, and even if you are, having phone sex can be a new outlet to explore together.
You might want to talk every day, or you might not. If you have to be apart for long periods of time, talk with your partner to find out how much phone conversing you both need.
Watch the same episode of your favorite TV show, or a big game, and talk about it while you’re on the phone. Cue up your favorite movie. Even if you have to be quiet most of the time, it’ll be almost like you’re together. [6] X Research source Try out a recipe together and try to make it at the same time. Talk each other through it and laugh at your successes and failures. Text each other pictures of the end results when you’re done and see who made it better. If you can, Skype or other video-chatting makes this even better. Even if you’re not saying anything, it’ll be like you’re in the room together.
Make sure you’re in the same network if you’re going to spend loads of time just listening to each other breathe. This can be a romantic gesture, or just a huge waste of money and minutes.
“You looked beautiful this morning. Can’t get you out of my head. " “Can’t wait to see you later today! Counting the minutes. " “Guy at work keeps talking about his cats. Miss you. " “I’ve been thinking about last night all day. Can’t wait to do that again. "
“You’re going to kill that presentation, I just know it. Good luck!” “Good luck with the test! Thinking of you!” “Only three more hours left till you get to come home. " “It’s almost Friday! You can do it!”
“Just finished my essay. Yikes. At least it’s done? Can’t wait to see you tonight and blow off some steam. . . " “It’s such a beautiful day on campus! Flowers! Birds! Wish you were here to see it. " “I got to work and Jim had eaten the last donut and drank the last of the coffee and now I’m just looking at Buzzfeed and wasting time. What are you doing?” “Everyone on the train looks grim this morning. Monday. How’s yours going?”
“When you get home from work, I’ll bring you pizza?” “I’m downtown later. Meet me for a drink at our spot?” “I’m having the worst day. Here’s what I’m thinking for later: You. Me. Some wine. A dark room. . . . and Empire Strikes Back on the new Blu-Ray. Yes?” “It’s a beautiful day. Let’s meet in the park and go for a walk!”
Be careful with sending picture messages that are x-rated. Make sure you know and trust the person you send pictures to, and remember that it’s never romantic to send unsolicited naked pictures, and it can be dangerous.
