If there’s a guidance counselor at your school, having honest conversations with them throughout the year can help you be more aware of your strengths and weaknesses. Get feedback from your teachers on projects and your behavior in class. Honest conversations with your friends can help you be more confident in your abilities and more aware of your flaws. [2] X Trustworthy Source Harvard Business Review Online and print journal covering topics related to business management practices Go to source
Listening properly means listening actively. Ask questions where needed and show that you’re listening to what someone is saying. [4] X Research source
If you want to learn a second language more quickly, ask your parents to hire a tutor. [5] X Research source
A great list of classic books can be found in the The Western Canon, by Harold Bloom. Pick a few books from that list and start reading. [6] X Research source However, it’s important to note to decolonize literature and explore works beyond the Western world. It’s important to not let yourself be constrained and only read “classics” or specific genres. Expand your worldview through reading, and discover new interests.
If you have facial hair, it should be neatly trimmed. Any body hair should also be neat and trimmed. Keep your nails trimmed and don’t chew them. You can use nail polish, but it should be neat. Brush your teeth twice a day and floss regularly. [9] X Research source
Wash your hair every couple of days, especially if it’s long. Washing it every day will make it lose its oils, making it brittle and prone to split ends. [10] X Research source
You don’t need to wear a suit or fancy dress to every occasion, but make sure your clothes fit well and are clean. When in doubt, it’s better to be overdressed than to be underdressed. If you’re not sure how well you should dress for a specific occasion, dress a bit fancier than you think is appropriate. Pick colors and patterns that go well together. Solid neutral colors are a safe bet and can fit any occasion. [11] X Research source
Whether sitting or standing, you want to keep a straight spine. If you’re sitting in a couch or chair with back support, your bottom should be as close as possible to the inner edge, which meets the back of the chair or couch. [12] X Research source
Above all, chew with your mouth closed and never talk with your mouth full. [13] X Research source
Switch your phone to vibrate or mute. You’ll avoid the temptation of looking down at it so frequently and won’t disturb the conversation. [14] X Research source
